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For
Children with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder
(A.D.H.D)
You have probably heard people saying that you have got
A.D.H.D - Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. We call it A.D.H.D
because it’s easier to say. You are probably wondering what it all
means? Well, it affects
everyone differently and you might hear people saying that you cannot
concentrate on anything for very long, you are easily distracted,
impulsive, disorganised, have poor co-ordination and are overactive. But
what do all these things mean? Poor concentration
- An example might be at school. The teacher asks you to write a story
and you have so much to write in your mind, but it all takes such a long
time and you get fed up so don’t finish the story or you write it down
so quickly that you miss half the story out. It may be that when your mum or teacher is telling you
something you try to listen but are easily distracted.
For example if someone walks by the window, you might watch what
they are doing and don’t listen to what you are being told. Maybe you
set off going to a friend’s house, stop to talk to someone on the way
and end up going to the shops instead of to your friend’s house.
If
you hear people say you are impulsive this just means that you do
things without thinking first. Perhaps you know you shouldn’t go
across the road, but you are playing ball with your friend and the ball
goes into the road and you don’t stop and look first, like you know
you should, you just rush out into the road for your ball, (and this is
dangerous). Or you know at school to put your hand up to answer a
question but you just find it difficult to keep quiet and often shout
the answers out. At school you probably forget where you have put things
like your spelling book, pencil case etc. and at home your bedroom is
always messy (this is called being disorganised). Having poor co-ordination just means that you are
probably clumsy, knock things over all the time and bump into things,
and you might find things like football or tennis difficult to play. At school and home you might find it difficult to sit
still for a long time and everyone probably tells you that you are
always fidgeting or fiddling, this is probably because you are overactive.
All these things may mean that you are always in
trouble at school and home. You probably feel that you can never do
anything right, everything you try goes wrong and you feel people think
you are stupid and dislike you. We call this having a low self-esteem
- you might have heard teachers, parents or doctors talk about this. We
want to make you feel good about yourself. You probably want to know why all these things happen
to you? We think that A.D.H.D is caused by a chemical imbalance in the
brain. The brain is very difficult to understand and there is no really
simple way to explain it. I will try and explain it to you more if you
want, if this would be helpful you can arrange to come and talk with me. To keep things simple for now, we can look at it this
way. ü
Our
brains are part of a system that uses chemicals in our bloodstream to
send messages round our bodies. ü
These
messages give our bodies instructions, such as “run” or “sit
still” ü
Sometimes
there are problems with the way these messages are understood, by our
bodies ü
These
messages may get mixed up, our bodies may get them in the wrong order or
at the wrong time ü
We
think that for people with A.D.H.D. this messenger system may not be
working properly.
Unfortunately
the doctors cannot fix the system but they can sometimes help it with
tablets. There are different types of tablets but the one we use the
most is called Methylphenidate (Ritalin). Methylphenidate
(Ritalin) is a Dopamine enhancer. (Dopamine is one of the many
chemicals produced in the brain and the Doctors think that people with
A.D.H.D probably don’t produce enough Dopamine). Ritalin increases the
amount of Dopamine in the brain, which allows it to receive the correct
messages - in the right time & order. It
is all very difficult to understand - even for adults. Ritalin won’t
change the person you are but it might improve the way your brain works
and it will probably make you feel much calmer. It is very important to
tell your parents how taking the tablets make you feel. It is also
important that you don’t use having A.D.H.D or the tablets as an
excuse for not trying. You will learn more about the way your brain
works as you get older and hopefully ‘learn’ ways of helping
yourself, this may mean you
don’t need to take the tablets any more.
Sometimes your friends might ask ‘if they can catch A.D.H.D?’ and the answer is always NO. It is something you are born with Hopefully this will help you to understand what A.D.H.D is and how it can affect you. It is very complicated. Sometimes it helps to explain what A.D.H.D is
to your friends so that they can begin to understand YOU a little
better. Remember that having A.D.H.D usually means that you have a
sparkling personality, are good fun to be with, you have lots of energy
and are enthusiastic and funny. There are lots of famous
people in the world with A.D.H.D like Robin Williams the comedian/actor,
and Michael Jordan. Look what they have achieved despite living with
A.D.H.D. So keep trying hard,
it may be more difficult BUT you can do it. |